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  • 1st Apr, 2009 at 4:13 PM
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I'm off to see a consultant in May (unless a cancellation opens up) as, apparently, I need to have my gallbladder removed entirely. Whilst I understand that these things involve only very small incisions these days, I'm still not entirely comfortable with the notion. Doubtless I'll come round to it. My main concerns are about how to manage the post-operative recovery period. The blurb says that one will be off work for about two weeks but gives no indication of what exactly that means. Obviously my concerns are revolving around how I'm going to manage looking after mum and, indeed, how I'm going to look after myself ... at least for the first few days after the op. Hopefully the consultant will be able to give me some reassurance on that count, otherwise I may have to see about getting mum booked into somewhere during the recovery period.

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[info]jfs wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 15:15 (UTC)
If you can't get her booked in to somewhere, would the council / NHS be able to provide some short term care support at home for her?

Sorry to hear this is all hitting you at once, sir.
[info]binidj wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 16:21 (UTC)
They might, yes ... though if I'm recovering at home and need peace and quiet for a few days, I'd much rather she weren't there!
[info]jfs wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 16:39 (UTC)
That's understandable.

Let me know if there's anything I can do to help.
[info]furzepig wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 15:25 (UTC)
Umm. You really don't want to hear what happened to me when I had it done. Though in my case it turns out that problems may have been down to my 'funny blood'.

More seriously, finding alternative arrangements for your mum does sound sensible. Keyhole means small holes that heal quickly, but you will likely be shattered physically from anaesthetic, being cut up, etc. But the consultant can provide the most useful info. There's stuff on the 'net about it too.

Personally I'm glad to be without it as it means eating properly again (not that they had any choice in my case as my bile duct was blocked and making me seriously ill).
[info]binidj wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 16:25 (UTC)
Having recently been told "lose weight or become diabetic" my diet is unlikely to normalise for a while yet. Switching to a low-fat, low-sugar, small-portions diet is not making me a happy Bin. Still, on the bright side it does mean that I'm cooking from scratch a bit more; which is both fun and tasty.

Eating nothing but fruit at roleplaying sessions is killing me though. I want chocolate!
[info]delvy wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 15:36 (UTC)
I had my gall bladder removed 6 years ago and am happy to talk you through my experience if that will help?
[info]binidj wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 16:17 (UTC)
Honestly it's more the mechanics of how to manage the household post-op that is troubling me. The procedure itself will happen regardless, and I'm acutely aware that people's experiences of such things can vary wildly. Perhaps we can compare notes after the event?
[info]manamar wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 20:31 (UTC)
My sister had the op a few months ago. She was off work for three/four weeks, and she couldn't drive for the first two. She has a 10 year old daughter who she needed to still look after, which was doable - just slowly. Give yourself the opportunity to rest as much as you can. Avoid hoovering like the plague, and probably ironing too. Probably double the time it takes you to do most things and (annoyingly) avoid laughing as it hurts like hell apparently.
[info]hekai wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 20:50 (UTC)
Agreed, from my own mother's recent experience, it'll mostly involve being worn out and not moving about too much (no lifting, especially) - but housework can go hang for a week. :)
[info]smokingboot wrote:
1st Apr, 2009 18:18 (UTC)
My best wishes, and likewise the idea that you may well be eligible for some help regarding your good lady mother.

Might be worth asking citizens advice for a pointer on who to barrack.

Edited to add: I meant to write GP...apologies, I am not at my most lucid this week.

Edited at 2009-04-01 21:45 (UTC)
[info]wsdante wrote:
2nd Apr, 2009 00:31 (UTC)
You know I'm just a call away if you need help with anything.
btw, I notice it's 1.30am on the 2nd now, so:

Happy Birthday Binster!

*Hugs*
[info]nyarbaggytep wrote:
2nd Apr, 2009 09:01 (UTC)
Happy birthday for birthday things, I think getting some quiet while you recover would be a good plan too.
[info]kathbad wrote:
2nd Apr, 2009 09:02 (UTC)
I offer myself as a minion to come and feed you/peel you grapes should you require it...
[info]hybridartifacts wrote:
2nd Apr, 2009 10:17 (UTC)
Happy Birthday!!!!

Post-op can be problematic enough as it is, without also looking after another. Take offers of support up and try and pace yourself. If you can get short term care help, go for it.

I hope everything goes well and you have a speedy recovery!

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